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BJ Shea 12-03-13-8am "Rick Jones live in studio"

Dec 3, 2013|

News story about an Alabama fan who shot and killed another woman at a party because she wasn't a “true” Alabama fan because she wasn't upset enough when Alabama lost to Auburn. Group therapy, Rick Jones joins us live in studio.

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We're doing some cool for the holidays we've teamed up for the Washington State Council firefighters who we wanna do is put a thousand new coats on kids they're in need this holiday season. I think that's very very doable 'cause all the costs 32 bucks. To put a brand new American made coat on a child in need that's it. -- figure body connect Kurt he went out there and he he he he yelled to -- would get a few -- he helped us so we have five goatee but yeah. Valve top five kids right that's awesome any donation helps you know if you only get about five bucks you know that's and employees because it all adds up. If you wanna do like -- and actually you know by you know give enough to buy a couple coach whatever you wanna do man. We we wanna help the so we wanna keep these local kids warm during our -- winner I mean there -- 300000 kids in Washington State to live in poverty. So while all of us to go hey here's our wish list for Christmas. What about just the kids -- rides -- man I wanna stay warm. I think we get that done so I go to KI SW dot com that give you all the info can also where you can go to donate the money. All right so I Steve this this is there. That that this is just a shocking story just a ridiculously shocking story. And I said before when it comes to domestic violence in this country it's a 5050 problem. And I think part of the reason is we can -- really -- the way we can make changes is if we recognize it as a 5050 problem it's not just one gender. It's both genders equally. You know involved in really stupid behavior that causes problems and violence that society doesn't need. And this is a perfect example of and a woman was killed. After the Alabama Auburn game by another fan who felt she didn't take Alabama's loss hard enough shoes this is unbelievable. Happen on Saturday you're not big enough of a fan. I look I look I know Alabama Auburn I understand very hard core fans is what is hard core almost randomly you can have a enemy is big of a rivalry you can -- I get it. But no whichever you shot over a sport and the last game was an epic game and and and seen ending so. I wouldn't have been surprised a couple people stickers down after that game you know because he who's who's definitely a tough game if -- of -- -- -- the teams to watch but it was a miracle finish but -- ridiculous -- -- you know thin and here's -- thing he has a 36 year old woman by the name of Michelle from Alabama she was -- a party. With -- other Alabama fans including a twenty year old woman named Adrian. After the game Michelle joke that the loss didn't hurt as badly as seeing the Miami Heat lose an NBA game entered. Well this -- eighteen -- rage she started screaming that Michelle wasn't a real Alabama fan. She pulled out a gun shot her and kill her she finish and it took them. Never had met before the party. Michelle leaves behind three children and yes -- was charged with murder this is I mean. That this is this is unbelievable to me this is honored. Free and believe me you're you're you're at somebody's house watching a game. And then you make your comments. And your -- Right I think. -- all because there are destined for export at the end of the day -- you know I mean I guess we all love our sports and I'm from I think all of us are very passionate about our teams but. There's nothing you can say. About my team -- deli -- of plotting gun and shoots you. They what is wrong with that woman I mean arguably there's nothing you could say do you ever Steve the only time you calling them to shoot anybody's that they were threatening your life for your family I mean that is the only time you would wanna do anything like that to anybody birds. What is happening on this this is just a I am just amazed. Could you imagine being at that party and all our down. I just just like OK I think it's time for me to go I don't know I mean -- have been to a party were people had guns and I've never known I like I don't know any of my friends are talking of parties everybody's packing -- -- -- -- party tapping. None of guns now topping a topic of course -- got those Stevenson gal weapons at his house announcing us support the pool -- -- C'mon dude yeah so what's -- come -- yeah yeah yeah like everything from what -- don't seem just in case it copies under siege not ready. I'll never gore or didn't -- know it's just gonna break up. Now in case you missed the game the ending is considered one of the most amazing endings -- any college football game ever I have to say almost any game ever I mean this this is this is an unbelievable ending. Auburn tied the game late and everyone expected begin to go to overtime. But once second on the clock Alabama attempted a 57 yard field goal and missed. So how about Auburn ties the game late and they're all excited about that but then it looks like okay -- of this field goal happens next for not yes. But Auburn's Chris Davis returned the field goal attempt could they miss did. It's a lot of ball in his lawsuit doesn't go out of the end zone you can take that ball 100 back is if it was punted to you open. And that's exactly what Chris Davis did he return of from the back of the end zone for a game winning touchdown. You have to admit the update is what was the call like I mean I don't think the announcers lived through this. -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- It's. They'll go back. It's. Obama and they got. All right I'll -- my. It's. Gold. -- -- -- and I didn't play by play guys doing it in new easy involved voice and more -- segment has gone on 4550 and forty billion dollars on the other guy. But he's like as a free -- loses that's loses that's like -- -- talking us. I got here. The IAA can you don't respect it I really don't I don't expect anyone to return a field goal attempt at all let alone for a touchdown with Colin -- my my last night during the hottest -- Russell -- -- Zach Miller and right. And -- like. But then violated beyond. I got -- slower than everybody else -- I -- anyone else on the team that would have been an exam and I and I -- you wanna get a touchdown Liederman. But you know when you do remember here is running The Beatles started slowing down and out alone at things on skirts and all of those legs and and there are a lot of almighty god moments -- Seahawks game and I'm Soledad that's my almighty -- Derrick Coleman and that's my oh my -- moment where a moment where their -- there was so many working parts to that play was again about really got to -- did he actually just above that he actually break the play him all the stuff was going on. And I was sitting there I was oh my god I'm like I believe we're gonna get a touchdown on what looked like could have been really bad here is sometimes an advantage fumble return on the touchdown and even the -- -- -- does that mean -- naval not to the body Drew Brees and my whole. Us against death did anybody get shot you -- all right so your house no shooting stop be America's best idea to big bottle of crown any shooting tear -- -- now. Vicky how much how I -- verbal shots or is fired up for other reasons -- -- know when nobody I nobody was hurt. This -- how sad is that -- how sad I don't know what kind of group of people. These two were hanging out with but. Man if you go -- to a party you get shot you got to -- to you -- your -- -- if you're still alive. Yeah I mean like I he would that you go to our random party like that that's just on that sadness. That is very very -- -- -- is I do you said there's a lot of almighty god moments during that Seahawks game yeah I think from me the ultimate almighty -- moment had nothing to do with anybody on the -- anybody on the Seahawks. Had everything to do with one of the officials say. -- -- -- The ball. Friends and relatives twelve years. Don't during that -- and by the way I was at my oh my god that would that was hysterical -- Yeah. Old poll. OK yeah nobody wanted to touch that I was watching the post game show with -- on king's I would also be. Impulse passport liquid commute that's includes a rude and broccoli with -- two wars as. I'm available I don't know what stretching out half I don't know what is I got about yeah. There's still he's got a great sense sense of humor you I would I would have loved to have been next to him when all I was going down just to hear his commentary that didn't make it on the classic just classic. -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- My terms and I mean he's great stuff -- awesome and I know it was a Lugar voted -- Seattle's and therefore when they're going in and -- -- commercials are playing music from Seattle but I love it now love hearing Carolina -- during the show and they did a couple signs -- couples over the -- you -- -- commanders -- -- -- did lightning -- which is one of my favorite songs and record. What better time than now focused for just fine on Friday night at the -- -- Yeah I don't got a problem with that why wouldn't I mean they always show the flavor of the city there and and speed it up by the way. Seattle a lot like finally we're starting to get some recognition or you know the last few years how mobile how -- We every moment and I football really had a great nod to a great up and coming local band that we just featured on our great agency and Ryder. They showed a clip from their concert venue mostly docile they are connecting -- today you news is how we calibrated all the noise -- you know. Kyle how loud to the frequency isn't decimals are when when people are allowed in years a ban from Seattle new moves. And rider flying it's they did they are just jamming out -- this is great what a great not to see. And that is like -- current local man I mean as far as you know no one knows about them really except of course Seattle knows about but they're not on the national level the Pearl Jam mr. I talk to you you can't just doing better than that as far as a national broadcaster that you're right CL was awesome thing I think people like to bitch. A lot of -- texting -- get a -- get -- that's cute guy gets are Seahawks -- Syria could just there it's always our system is skewed from by the station in New Orleans and he threw the gauntlet out saying a whoever's team wins -- to the opposing team. Fans you know shirt yeah yes so he needs to go to -- stack up -- the option is gonna have to do that's did we should we should make anyone like one person said Paul. All we we never thought about that I forgot about the pink jerseys and that's a good -- yeah not just wearing the team but the pink Jersey dad all we gotta remember that next time that's a great -- good call. And before reports that Jersey -- he needs to unisource. I. Yeah he's got to make you tell you he -- on a pull a muscle Steve what it was a Jersey on. Oh man what a great day what a great day for the sun's coming out to be as any relief yeah. Are you in the middle of a divorce -- thinking of getting a divorce. About Colin now because we -- you some free advice from our divorce lawyer. 206421 -- 873. Iraq and rocky is 7625. You know also Texas 77999. Rick Jones from goal Morgan Johnson taking your calls and text payday eighteen. On Iraq. KI SW Roth. -- -- He -- BJ share. Andrew Debbie is brought you by Goldberg and Jones at 1800 divorced that's 1800 divorced for gold virgin Jones. And Steve yes today's -- really. Is brought you -- -- -- as our next guest is the man himself when he was that the hawks game last night I don't know if you witnessed this reverse. Please welcome to the show -- Jones. Hey guys did you notice -- -- you -- to -- -- Daniel Wallace usually I guess we all get a start stretching absolutely when they didn't I don't look at that went over the loudspeaker in Thailand and could really -- -- there may look at these other dude did you just knows exactly what happened but you know members good. -- But yet there's no there's another we'd we stop the game to stretch our boys it hasn't happened. That's what I have less divorces are there people would reverse. Don't know I think that's part of the first consultation right the first call you get premier -- -- you call go Marie Jones asserted that his credit calls free distractions not. I. Sarah you're at the game last night and we were just talking off there you saw something that was you thought yeah it's a we have seen before from our defense you know when -- -- with a leading you're in tenure at the homes part I mean the home stadium and of course know you want to see -- be loud and our defense is on the field. And you saw some thought there was this feel yeah I was actually a little bit wild and I'm certainly no stranger to going to football games and also no stranger to seeing -- -- defense especially Seattle's defense trying to get the crowd into it so yeah as as the other offenses look lining up normally take your gyrate a little bit and no way their hands getting the crowd got into it. But in the route rather than that -- site at least nine if not allow all eleven every defensive players actually dancing to the music it was like I was in the club. That's awesome. I got a kick out of -- does no good docs gazed back before they started using a Motley crews are kick start my heart and a half. Good to kick off song. The seas -- -- -- Kanye song and you see you -- -- early kickoff return just kind of grew a little bit -- -- got to find that they're paying attention oh yeah I wonder the -- that we're looking at each other when this was said. Yeah I know they have I I gotta be thinking that you re laughing if if that's how we all heard that had to be how they heard it. And they had to be laughing their -- is always what are you talking about the rich you're there what was it like when Michael Bennett -- that -- fumbles firm fruit for touchdowns as they say they've been registered on the seismic scale the head it was mayhem at absolute mayhem. Wow that must mean I'm just watching on TV area I was to -- up and down my dog was barking and a lot of fun but I can't imagine what is exactly are you there. Then we got to record again right yeah we did learn -- and we did the earthquakes and again so I guess that we have the sound record against communism we have the earthquake record heat and earthquake occurrence again. Which if -- the saints it's the only time it's a that I could happen is -- when you're town we set out here at the earth moves. And native boy were you were there are so you said the atmosphere was just insane the biggest the biggest crowd they've had there. So a lot of cool thing a lot of -- records were broken records were stops. You know Drew Brees is no longer the guy that hasn't been the guy McNabb not to mark 43 straight games of him getting over 200 yards passing -- -- -- done over with. And now meanwhile course are Russell was another acrobatic act just yet you yet now you again get out of all sorts of situations. And boy it is is it's is gonna be fun to be a dad stadium. Because Rick you've got a lot of games you've been at that stadium where it hasn't been that -- that's right. Yeah and that's what I love about you know -- ignored -- gonna talk about other stuff too but obviously it's we've talked about divorce questions and Lisa we'll get -- and a second. But that's gonna be some of the sort I love about. Anybody who's a true fan of the person that's been years since the hawks' first came to Seattle you've suffered through everything the blackout days I remember oh. Yeah this is a great reward you know I grew up in Boston so you know when you finally your patience is rewarding your faith is rewarded. And this could I mean this is the closest I think anyone's ever think limited may very well be were back in the playoffs definitely. And we have home field advantage we we were we right -- testing ourselves. It's -- really for the long suffering hawks fan. Let's not go there just yet. Yeah I'm I'm a little worried about that but whenever I guess -- New York yet I'm enjoying every week and yeah I do. I have I have I don't you have a charity auction back in now back in March has picked up a couple of Super Bowl tickets now. Again I'm not I'm not make -- on the -- actually a millionaire but if they dead Slovenia's only go if he's still my mom and dad's house. It's nice. Well I trimester a drink it gave no notice up after the game do -- I think you would. Nobody wants Syria nobody -- nobody wants Jason ending but the hawks have their destiny in their own handsome and they have the ability to basically host every game right -- -- the Super Bowl it's as long as they continue to you know win out a way to winning. That's a big thing is we saw last night nobody wants to come and play football here especially playoff football but it's tough to imagine any team coming in here after seeing what we did last night -- an idea caught yup you got -- like OK. Any special earplugs and also just enough. And it didn't matter anyway just like okay who wants to do that. You know has so it's. It's fun to. All right so you know that we we we also want marriage to be fun ten this is why we have Rick Jones in because. You know even though our goal bring Jones has a lot with divorces and -- callable at 1800 divorce but you know Rick we've also talked about you know being very pro active. You know treating marriage not just as an emotional thing but also as a person as a professional and business thing is well because it is whether we like it or not. It is a transaction it is a legal document it's a legal maneuver. And boy we just -- we're not Smart about it but you know maybe people just aren't -- let's incredibly yeah incredibly profoundly correct region it's absolutely a business partnership when people get married. And they don't understand the concept and there are other ramifications of it. And so that's what Goldberg -- so good at and -- right now Rick is here to answer any question you have about what what you should do before you get married. What you should do why you married and then if the marriage comes to an -- what you should do. 206421. Rock 873 Iraq and -- 7625. You can also Texas 77999. And don't forget men you can always call Rick Jones at 100 force if you don't get through here or Goldberg Jonah Goldberg Jones dot com. Police -- in Tacoma you are on the rock. Maybe they've been -- pick my column -- welcome Lucy right eyebrow and Rick Jones. I think trick I'm calling on behalf of my 73 year old mother who's definitely. Did not understand the ramifications of getting married later -- life and you have all the all the great little property that she owned before the marriage. And her ex husband family was allowed to just tell a bunch of lies. And commenced the judge that she. And somehow mismanaged. They're fun that wall of the marriage and they've just been much English took all of property float. Yeah it was crazy I mean -- I think they've been incarcerated her -- failure she didn't have the money to pay lawyers she. And the judge ordered her to -- lawyers even -- me three years old they put her in jail. And my brother and I had to scrape together the money to -- oral. It's so be out there and Heidi get in that situation. It was just I'm president I mean and that and then. -- -- -- went to trial period lawyer quit like a few weeks before the trial. He scrambled we you know we tried to help her find a lawyer. So they can prepare their case you know in the weeks before. And then -- only flourish she found. They can take -- -- How did it in the requested continuance of two weeks and the judge denied that as well as she ended up going to trial with military. So I mean that's pretty much how old you know where they were dead they're -- they're able to get -- -- anything you wanted. And I you know issues like thirty grand now in bed trying to appeal. I saw Lisa you've given us a lot of information I'd like Rick to be able -- you know give us some thoughts on this because it does this sounds like there's all there's there's a lot of having this -- a lot of time on this one you know what I -- it's a terrible horror story here at least an -- and I just can't even imagine a 73 old woman behind bars. I don't -- but you know that being said though. And if it does seem so outrageous I'm I'm wondering may be what I'm not understanding from a legal perspective because. Obviously there was a judge involved who was trying to do the right thing or what they thought was the right thing. And so there's there's got to be some other piece of the puzzle I'm not saying -- your view rather deserve this anyway shape or form. But it sounds like -- process happened. Another frustration of course that was it didn't sound like she had quality representation at the time and that's that's also -- concern because. A -- really there to sort of guide and translate and be able to speak to the court the language is that they really want to hear and understand. So why -- I worry that maybe that happened to. So -- So yeah correct you they won't win any any suggestions at this point release others I am here or am I am that this atop my what's the next step on the Internet links we have one more opportunity to. You know appeal well you know appeals and appeals in family law are extremely difficult because how much discretion is carved out for the courts. I hit it long is this just happened recently. There may be able there may be the ability ability to do what's called a motion for reconsideration now the downside is that it will be in front of the same judge. So what are the odds of getting them to change their mind for anybody but that at least just a short and not as costly as trying to go through a full blown appeal. And you know Lisa I appreciate the call idea obviously you can give our Rick Jones or call 1800 divorce and see if there's anything you know if there's any possibly can be done with a more extensive interview obviously and and -- get more information about what's going on. But this just really shows that. Whatever they cases. We've got to be smarter and really be more proactive and really understand that look love his love that's great but look. A lot of marriages fail in this country and and the alarming rate of new marriages that fail as I -- it's it's 50% or more when comes in new marriages. He just have to be smarter when you're going to illegal transaction that could. -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- -- Situation. Agreements and basically it's what I like that it's just a contract that -- demonstrates what the intent of the parties are so that win two years later somebody tries to challenge with that intent as we've got this you know document this manifestation I love that because I mean that's the scary thing about moving him in anybody's receive one person has kids. There's a lot of stuff and all of a sudden can be assumed if you hang around too long that maybe you didn't want to have happen living agreement -- Steve totally was taught me something I learn something every time I -- told divas on the network Sunday nights to sit and watch it. And this is the cool thing about calling Goldberg and Johnson -- you would be surprised how much legal advice they have that isn't just about the divorce proceedings because the marriage. You know is a part of divorce and there's so much you can do before the you know hopefully it never happens because of the work you do before that's right yet to do so again 100 horse that's won an and a divorced from Goldberg in -- Jeremy -- to call -- you're on the line and Rick Jones go ahead. Good morning BJ good morning Rick. I'm OK so here's my situation I just finished out divorce. About three months from being final. My ex I have custody full series -- Yeah exactly. But my X will not pay child support she owes me I got about 101000 dollars in judgments he still won't -- -- That's ever very quickly Jerry's because like -- steps up their last I checked Rick it turns up per capita there are more deadbeat moms in this country than deadbeat dads per capita. And that's the shocking news that nobody wants to face either share and it's also not publicize some time I appreciate you bringing that out yeah so Jeremy it sucks didn't hear this. But you are unfortunately not in the very unusual situation if you're not gonna get child support from here. From your exits it's it is something that I wanna get out there are a lot as men get beaten up in this country for not paying child support. But per capita up we're really not as much a problem as women are and that both have to stop -- you know you gotta pay you gotta support your kitten. I go ahead of Germany exactly well understood all pushed me a break to the edge of bankruptcy. I can't get anything from her financially to help. And now of course speakers the legal process has become so expensive having to do that saw myself. Did you mean when what -- -- limit their inner inner mom momentarily which is you say the legal process has been expensive what is it that you're doing are you bringing contempt actions against her. -- that's what I'm looking to do is bring contempt or at least bring enforcement actions. Well your act like your action is contempt and what what happens you get her in front of the courts and that way rather than. You know rather than upsetting you know witches are all fine and well. If she shows up and she doesn't have a good answer for the court she's now upset the court so they they know I take a vested interest in the case. Now she's not likely to have to pay up these you know tens of thousands of dollars to -- right up front but the same time she's going to be put on what's called a contempt bandwagon. And be brought back every few months to make sure she's at least current. And doing something towards the back supports that's the best thing you can do is get together on that you know contempt bandwagon if you. And again Jeremy men you know what you can do is you can just give our Rick Jones a caller wanted to divorce or because these guys will be in the don't let you know they can help you out and you guys do that first call violence if we can help -- These text message at 77999. It's is a good idea to buy duplex and allow the actual live on the other side right of free instead of paying child support. Well yeah it wow affect you it may end up being 61 half dozen they either but -- reality is you now entered into sort of a sketchy mutual understanding that the courts really aren't on board with -- you're sharing a wall with her yeah I just don't see a -- now know. Special late Friday night you don't know what's kind of sounds and I come from that that I did -- -- can move the headboard yeah. Yeah. The -- -- -- -- see there's all sorts of -- -- gifts from -- don't you have got a lot of data moved ahead sort of met so hard to believe Leo we -- -- out of time if you had the folks who didn't get through Rick Jones no problem and 1800 divorce. He'd also -- get him on Twitter at Goldberg Jones W eighth. And you go to Goldberg Jones dot com but again you call 100 divorce and you know any questions at all these guys let you know I mean they won't let you know they can help you out. The causes a lot of work in parts to this but like you say boy Rick pro activity is the best things you can do this before you say I do you're going to be happier person. Absolutely you probably saw both of our Collison -- that we got today people were calling in saying I've already been divorced or that this is in process is already happened. Surreal listening out there don't wait till afterwards to call me call me now if you got a question how I -- both my kids my son and my daughter it's like look I I would I hope they both get -- -- before if they get into marriage I die you know forget the romance because look man pre nup to have thing. There when Ortiz my stuff and -- -- and I got stuff I do some of those doctors. New media yeah I don't -- -- -- going you know I don't do you dads aren't -- not collection that bad but you -- Hi SA Steve got this one wrong but we also got a kick out of one of his yeses you're gonna need a bigger boat is -- -- -- which famous movies. Are Crocodile Dundee notebooks. He's bigger post Titanic know that. Yeah. Yeah ha ha ha -- over it takes you know. We get rid of the Titanic. Yeah you're gonna have a great shot a -- he distress and as you know the jaws is the answer -- -- -- -- -- producer at 849 months rock. 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